Make Her Orgasm Again and Again: 48 Simple Tips & Tricks to Give Her Mind-Blowing, Explosive, Full-Body Orgasm After Orgasm, Night After Night by Cramer Elizabeth

Author:Cramer, Elizabeth [Cramer, Elizabeth]
Language: eng
Format: mobi, pdf
Tags: kinky sex, how to make her orgasm, multiple orgasms, sex guide, orgasm, how to give orgasm, female orgasm
Published: 2013-08-27T16:00:00+00:00

17. (For Her) The best time to have an orgasm is at the beginning of sex

It has long been a topic of joking conversations and an envious revelation that women are capable of multiple orgasms in a small amount of time. But, the female brain, much like the male brain, needs some kind of respite and only has so many muscle control chemicals to release at any given time. So, the first orgasm is always going to be the stronger one, marked by increased release. However, the second one is easier to achieve (due to the fact the brain has already produced the pleasure chemicals for use) and usually has a different emotional and personal feel to it.

Even if a woman is not seeking two orgasms, having one before intercourse begins will make intercourse more pleasurable and increase the likelihood of an orgasm more focused on the pelvic floor if the second one occurs.

Women who sometimes experience pain during intercourse are encouraged to have an orgasm before sexual entry. Having your lover give you an orgasm though oral or manual stimulation dramatically increases the amount of vaginal lubrication and amount of blood flow to your pelvic area. Your vaginal channel will already be swelling and prepared for sexual intercourse and your brain will be locked in and ready to continue providing necessary support. When your body is more prepared, the pain and stretching of intercourse is reduced and the experience is more pleasurable all around.

If your partner does not choose to give you an orgasm first, the next best time to have one is after he climaxes. The act of intercourse itself will stimulate the clitoris and send nerve signals up to the brain. However, many women get lost in the actions of their partner or own physical disconnect and are unable to experience the thoughts necessary to promote an orgasmic response. The best thing to do in that case is to wait until your partner is finished and has ejaculated.

Begin to do kegel-like exercises and continue moving your hips and pelvic area as if intercourse is still going on. Keep your mind engaged, thinking about the sexual moment with him. Take his hand and place it where you want it or ask him to use his mouth to give you increased impulses (if he balks at oral sex after his ejaculation, remind him it is just a simple body fluid and you taste it all the time). If your partner is falling asleep or is just not willing/able to stimulate you – masturbate while continuing the scenario in your mind until you achieve release.

Mutual orgasm is commonly held up as the sort of “holy grail” of sexuality. However, from a physical and psychosexual standpoint, it’s not that great. For one thing, when you are both engaged in orgasm at the same time, a woman’s inclination is usually to cater to his pleasure and she can’t concentrate or feel as much of her own pleasure occurring. Add to that the

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